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Why You Should Force Yourself To Socialize More As You Age

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Socializing is much more than just catching up with friends. It actually provides many health benefits and can help you to live longer.

Feeling in a rut or not wanting to go out is unhealthy and we have all been there.  It is easy to fall into the ‘can’t be bothered’ syndrome, especially if we are feeling tired or life is too busy. Sometimes you need to actually make the effort to get dressed and get out of the house.

Socializing and enjoying the company of friends and family is a simple but sure way of helping you feel rejuvenated.

My husband and I regularly catch up for lunch with another couple and although sometimes we aren’t really in the mood, we feel alive again after enjoying a meal with great company and have a few laughs.

I also have a weekly catch-up with my Saturday Sisters.  We run together every Saturday morning and use that time to not only exercise but to chat, laugh, cry, vent or whatever we need to do.  We are there for each other and it is surprising how that one hour per week can lift my spirits.

Socializing stimulates our minds and keeps our brains active.   

We learn from others, we share experiences and develop friendships.  We can share common interests or have discussions with others who have different opinions or ideas. Being social also takes away the emphasis on YOU and your worries or problems.

As we age, we can become lonely if we lose a spouse or we divorce.  We may have retired and lost daily contact with others. We sometimes need to start again with building friendships and it can be daunting.


The 5 Benefits of Socializing As We Age


  1. Reduces stress and anxiety. – Being able to share your problems with friends is so therapeutic. And it is free! 
  2. Delays memory problems as we age. – Research from Harvard University showed that in people aged in their 50’s and 60’s who had active social lives and activity experienced slower memory decline was slower than those who rarely socialized.
  3. Reduces risk of cardiovascular disease. – Results of a study published in the Heart Journal showed that loneliness and social isolation are risk factors for coronary heart disease and stroke.
  4. Increased positive attitude due to feeling needed and connected. – God bless my friends for always showing me the silver lining!
  5. Decreased negative influences as a result of laughter– Being able to laugh and enjoy your friends company always makes regular life easier to deal with.


There are many ways to be social. It doesn’t just mean catching up over a coffee.

Here are a few suggestions to help you get out there and meeting up with old friends or finding new ones.

  • Join a book club
  • Attend family events
  • Visit a museum or art gallery
  • Go to the theatre
  • See a movie and then discuss over lunch or dinner
  • Volunteer
  • Find a hobby and join a community
  • Get a membership and join some exercise classes
  • Join Church groups
  • Take an art or dance class
  • Go on a pre-planned travel excursion


About the author:

Sue Loncaric is a lifestyle blogger at Sizzling Towards Sixty And Beyond.

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Monday 6th of February 2017

this is all excellent advice. I know how sad I felt when I arrived in Atlanta from New York six months ago. I left so many friends and my church family. It took me a while to get going down here but I am now volunteering and joining groups. This article is so true. Thank you for writing this.

Toni Pike

Sunday 5th of February 2017

Great advice, Sue, and something I need to focus on as I tend to be introverted.

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