I have been on a journey of self realization for the last year. I have been trying to figure out what I want for the second half of my life. I have been frightened and filled with stress many times as I examine the question:

can you change your life at 50?

Yesterday I got a call from a friend that I haven’t heard from in a while. We’ve literally been friends since we were born. Her mother and my aunt were room mates in the hospital when both she and my cousin were born.

After a long conversation of catch up, and right as we were going to say goodbye, she says:

“Oh, by the way, I quit my job. My last day is Friday.”

Ah, hold on. I’m not letting you sign off after dropping that bomb.

Apparently, her revelation to others, had brought her a lot of bad reactions. She left it to the end of the phone call to curb, what she thought would be, a negative response.

“That’s freaking awesome!”, I exclaimed.

For many, the fifties are what I refer to as the sandwich years. Your own children are grown but not fully independent and you have senior parents who are requiring extra care. You are the meat, stuck in the middle, keeping the whole thing together.

Honestly, I always looked at her like superwoman. I felt inferior to her level of accomplished juggling. Apparently, it has taken a toll on her mentally and physically.

This is not a decision she took lightly. It will carry with it huge financial consequences. She did discuss with her boss going part-time or job sharing, but neither was an acceptable prospect.

So that’s that. She’s going cold turkey, jobless. She’s nervous and excited but relieved. She feels like she can finally take a breath.

I know how she feels, it’s almost exactly a year to the day that I stepped away from my working life. Yes, financially we have had to tighten our belts. Yes, I sometimes miss the sense of accomplishment my career brought me. Yes, I miss my fellow employees and the sense of purpose.

Do I regret my decision? Absolutely NOT!

I know it’s not for everyone. I know many can not afford to do it. But for me, I had a feeling that I had to make it happen.

Over the next few weeks, we have made arrangements to get together and strategize her next step but for now, what is her plan?

“I’m going to really do Christmas! I’m going to bake!”

I’m happy for her and look forward to helping her in her new journey. Can you change your life at 50? Life can change at any age. You must decide what is important to you, then make a plan. If it is what you truly want and need, you can make it happen.

I know it is scary. If you are not a risk taker like me, follow this 5 step plan for a life change.

Have you made a drastic life altering change late in your life?